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Give Yourself Permission

It is September 14, 2001 and I am sittingsomefashion, even if only vicariously. So I
here trying tothink of something to share;gave myselfpermission, and just left the TV
frankly, I can't. I'm still inshock over theon.I didn't even pretendthat I was trying to
events of the last few days so I'm goingget anything done; I just stayed gluedto the
tooffer  this:tube to stay informed. Occasionally I had to
remindmyself  to  breathe.
I have always maintained that TV is the
archenemy of thehome-based business ownerI didn't get much done, but it doesn't
because it's so easy to getsucked-in andmatter; I did whatwas most important at the
completely distracted. I've tried totime. After all, my country wasunder attack.
workwhile the TV is on, but I'm only at 50%Members  of  my  American "family" were lost.
capacity at best. Isuppose that's better than
sitting on the couch with a bowlof popcorn,Others were heroes. The coverage of the
but I prefer operating at a higher levelevents and all ofthe incredible ramifications
thanthat.was  nothing  short  of  amazing.
The solution I have always recommended is toIt was a monumental moment of history, and I
never  turn  on  aknow I did theright thing. If I had been in
New York, I would have beenout of the house
TV in the first place. It's amazing how easy(or  apartment)  doing  SOMETHING  to  help
it is to avoidplot lines when you don't know
what they are! That said,when there is aSOMEBODY who was more directly affected than
major news event I find myself inI.
terribleconflict; should I keep my nose to
the  grindstone  or  justIn reading what I just wrote, it sounds like
I feel guiltydoesn't it? Well, I do a little
'give-in' to the temptation to keep up withbecause I, like mostentrepreneurs, have a
what's  going  on?strong work ethic. On the other hand,we also
need to strike a balance between our work and
I have found myself in this predicamentotherpriorities.
during major eventssuch as the Columbine
shootings, the Northridge earthquake,the GulfI'm in great pain because of what I saw and
War, and the Challenger space shuttleheard, but inretrospect I really had no
disaster.choice. It was simply notpossible for me to
ignore  what  was  happening  so that I could
When something happens that is so
devastating, so traumatic,so incomprehensible"get  some  work  done".
as  the  terrorist  attacks  on  the  World
If it's a really important distraction, give
Trade Center and the Pentagon, I am not doingyourselfpermission. After all, some things
myself a favorby 'resisting'. I NEED to keepare just more importantthan a few hours of
up with the details. I NEEDto know what'swork.
happening. I NEED to feel involved in



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